A Child of Smile

Are the children really enjoying their childhood ? Or Troubling to live ,by their parents ,who insists their ideas, Dreams and aspirations on the small children ?

Mostly the answer is "YES"

I Want to show you some example, where this happens ...

In some of our Indian channels, where the bollywood, tollywood,Kolliwood,sandalwood and all kind of stupid wood..... song competition happens each and every week for childrens. Usually from upper middle class families the children participate in these festivals. I have seen a Music Competition for Children in one of our Tamil Channel. The Child Wearing Dress like 30 years old and it sounds the aspiration of her Mother. And shows a clear picture about a other kind of child abuse. Whereas the child age was just 6.

And in that music show, a child performed a dance on a stage. It was a Romantic song, and after the song the Head person commented on the child " A bit of romance is missing in your face" Whereas the child age was 8. And the child says " Thanks sir", Even she doesn't know what he says....But just giving the apologize words as told by teachers and parents.

And most of the fashion shows are like this, The children need to perform on stage, what was taught by their parents. And most children cry in stage itself,and also some of them performing it just like a Robot.

My question is that why to insist your Thoughts on children. And why do you copy western countries and the cultures for children.

In India the attitude about a person was based on the dress you have in your body. But why to give cooling glasses for babies and destruct their eyes and Giving Bras and small clothes to young child and killing their life. Even western countries clothes are not good for the Indian Weather.

I went to one of my neighborhood yesterday, I seen a small boy of the family. And i asked him What you are Doing ? ..He told "Sorry ,I'm already late to my class" and ran out of home. I asked his mother where he is going ? And she told a big time table for the small boy. He goes to school on Morning and come back to home in evening. And 5'o clock is Pronunciation class and 6'o clock is Music class. And his age is Just 4. His mother is proud about her son, and his progress reports.


I remember my childhood which was too much fun, i learned most senses from playing with other children in street and farms. But nothing like this..........!!!!!!!!!

The other kind of child abuse is that Bunch of books in their back, where they have to study and they have to carry them to their school Daily. I Don't think their back bone will have a good growth. Neither their mental ability is not going to be a super computer with lot of books.

Hope a new type of education will come out without copying other countries like this.....

The children need to read all this and tough with the studies. It creates More nervousness among children on their studies.

My only clear point is Don't Train your children with equipments for the ordinary life. Give a place to learn and see the growth which happens by nature and Give lot of Love to your Childrens.

If you really take care of your children, Don't insist your aspirations to your children. Give just your Love. That's enough for them.